So what is this Starfishing lark anyway?

Apart from being a book that I'm in what is Starfishing? Answers on a postcard. I've been trawling the web to see what other people think but no one's quite got the answer I'm looking for yet.

From the Urban Dictionary:

When an individual, who is too fatigued to engage in sexual activity themselves, lay spread out on the bed for their partner.

The term "Starfish" comes from the shape that the individual makes when they spread out.

"She was full starfishing for me last night...I full doodled her good!"

From the interweb:

A place where things happen without warning.

From Amazon.com

An album by the Green Chili Jam Band

On the bloggosphere here and here

At Yahoo! answers there is talk about it but few answers.

If you want to find out what it has to do with my story, well, you're just gonna have to buy the book. Go on. You know you want to.